Sex to me is not something you should do if you don't want to or because
every other person is doing it. It should be about that closeness, friendship,
respect and most especially love. i was in love once and young. i used to think
that if you love someone you should be able to give them what they want even
when it’s not want you want or at least yet.
Wanting to have sex with someone because you don't want to lose them
shouldn't be a good reason. If the individual doesn't understand that you are
not ready or maybe understands and yet cheats on you then maybe both of you
were not meant to be. Because the fact is the guy will cheat on you if he wants
to whether you decide to sleep with him or not.
As a teenager or a virgin, new to sex, you want your first time to be with
someone that loves you as much as you love them. Yes some people lose it really
early and don't really care who takes it while some are really sensitive about
it and might feel used after experiencing it.
Anyways i haven't had it in a while because i don't see the point of it. As
a human being you might feel like it but then when you remember how fast it
comes and goes, you ask yourself if it’s really worth it. And most guys I’ve
met are just after it and nothing else that you wonder if we as women are just
sex objects and have nothing to offer.
So i made a pact that i wouldn't have sex till I'm married and so far i
don't have any regrets’.
If a guy/man it’s
not patient to be with me because of my sex laws then he’s not for me i the
first place. And i know it might take time to find someone that really gets you
and is willing to wait for you until you are ready but it’s better than living
your life in regret every time you have it (sex).
For some people sex might be nothing, some even see it as a form of exercise
that when the urge comes they just want to do it with whomever they are with or
some random guy. I'm not judging but i feel it should be more than that you
know. It should be with someone you feel safe with, someone that loves you for
who you are and feels exactly the way you feel about them or more. Some you can
tell your secrets, trusting they would keep them, someone that can't imagine
making love to no other than you.
It's a long story and that while I’m writing my book hoping it will get
published someday. I have a lot to say that my blog is not enough to place it. But
I’ll get there someday! Sorry it took a lot of time to post this, i work six
days a week and barely have the time, just had to squeeze this in. i hope to
quit someday and focus on this. Which i will!
Thanks for reading, as always!